About

What happens when a timid and squeamish woman decides it’s time for a change? She ziplines like Superman, rides a mechanical bull, flies on a trapeze. In short, she becomes more confident and assertive, and begins to love trying new things.

I am still on my journey, and this blog is about the ride. Whether you want to be inspired, peek into an introvert’s mind, or chuckle at my klutziness, this blog will have something for you.

Left to my natural inclinations, I am a junk food eating, social situation avoiding, couch potato germaphobe who looks at the bad side of every situation and avoids trying new things. This is not who I want to be, so I wage war on myself, going from one extreme to the other, all or nothing. I seek a middle ground in which I gently push myself in the right direction and live a healthy, active lifestyle.

I blog about a series of challenges I give to myself, so that I don’t remain, in the words of Ralph Waldo Emerson, “too timid and squeamish.” Some of the challenges will not strike others as something to be timid or squeamish about. Those are the ones where I need to give myself a little push to get out of the house or make a change that is healthier. Sometimes I just need to break through inertia (OK, laziness) and get something done.

I value collecting experiences over collecting things (well, iPads do seem pretty cool), and on the surface it may appear that I am not too timid and squeamish. I love to travel and have had some amazing experiences:

Petting a tiger in Thailand

Drinking snake whiskey in Laos

Sleeping under the stars in the Sahara (I am on the second camel)
Photo by Agra Baroti

Hiking Mt. Washington with my family

Traveling alone to Costa Rica

Machu Picchu
Hiking the Inca Trail to Machu Picchu

These experiences, while fraught with some anxiety, were in some ways easier for me to accomplish than things like inviting people to a cookout, speaking up at a meeting, or drinking out of somebody’s cup. I guess we all have obstacles and insecurities that hold us back, right?

Regular features on my blog:

  • Readers: Celebrate your courage. When have you gone out of your comfort zone? I want to feature everything from dining alone to running with the bulls. Send me a postcard!
  • 101 things in 1001 days (and beyond), a series of challenges to become less timid and squeamish
  • Scene from a Memoir — stories from my past

I’d love to hear your ideas of any new challenges I should try.

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42 Responses to About

  1. Amy says:

    I love your blog! And, I admire you for stepping out of yourself and doing! Just stopping by from SITS 31dbbb. I am going to go check out some more stuff. You can check out my blog at http://kitchenandkids.com and twitter @kitchenandkids.

  2. Hi Marcy!
    I am so glad you commented on my blog so that I could find yours! Breaking out of your comfort zone is certainly a scary and difficult thing to do, but you are doing an amazing job at it! I am excited to read about the challenges you have already conquered and the ones coming up! Can’t wait to read more :)

  3. Jenni says:

    I really like the idea of your blog and I can relate, since I have inner battles too! I am squeamish about eating or drinking weird things (I would never drink snake whisky)!

  4. Deb G says:

    Wow Marcy, this is a great blog. I’m going to try and use it to inspire me to make little changes and break out of my “junk food eating, social situation avoiding, couch potato” shell and experience new things. That is if I can stop procrastinating long enough. :)

    Looking forward to seeing where you guys are vacationing this summer – the photos always give me the travel bug.

  5. Creativ2xmom says:

    Oh, my gosh! I want your life. :-) I am much Too Timid and Squeamish. I’m so impressed.

  6. abi says:

    Hi Marcy,
    Just clicked over from SITS. Yesterday’s challenge has me checking “About” pages & I love yours! My favorite thing about it is the pics. Usually people (myself included) post one shot of their face & that’s it. All your photos really help us get to know you better. Great job.

    abi
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  7. Kristina says:

    I love the idea behind this blog. I’m a bit of an introvert myself – unless I’ve got a camera in front of my face. Good luck to you!
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  9. Sandz says:

    Hi Marcy

    I love your blog, I was just checking out your About me and page and found you also have 101 List. I have started mine as well to over come my timidity. All the the best on yours

  10. Sandra Eddy says:

    Love your blog! Thanks for sharing…and thanks for organizing Friday night tennis on Saturday.

  11. Kristina Ortiz says:

    Hi Marcy. I am so inspired by your blog. I am constantly battling inertia (laziness) LOVE that. I am too timid and squeamish and need to find a path to find more experiences. I will continue to use your blog as inspiration. Love the meatless Monday idea. Starting with this! Hopefully my couch potato days will dwindle down. Thanks!

    • Marcy says:

      That’s so nice of you to say, Kristina. Thank you! Good luck staying off the couch. I have always been impressed by you and your ability to do great things!

  12. Hiya!
    I can so relate with the natural inclination to avoid social situations and be a couch potato! It’s a constant struggle to NOT do that for me too… I also have a 101 list – second one in fact, as I completed much of the first.
    While I have had some amazing experiences too from this list, and all of them have helped me out of my shell *a little*, I think I’ll always be inclined to avoid social situations if I don’t push myself, so I understand completely!!! :)
    Here’s a comment from one timid woman to another! haha.
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  14. Jennifer says:

    I am loving your blog. I’ve just started mine recently and am totally looking at yours as a fantastic example. You are an amazing person and I love these personal challenges your setting for yourself.
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  15. I LOVE your blog idea! So fantastic. I just wrote about this very idea… Now I am going to have to read more of the challenges you have taken! Bravo for you.
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  17. Hi there! I really do enjoy your site and think it has great ideas! I have nominated you for a Very Inspiring Blogger Award (see http://explorenewness.wordpress.com/2012/11/17/a-new-blogging-experience-blog-award-nomination/). All the best!

  18. xela ardan says:

    This is a great blog idea and I can really relate! I’m thinking about starting one up and yours has given me some inspiration to actually get out of my comfort zone, and well, blog. I really like your “Scene from a memoir” — what a neat way to look back, and reflect.

    Thanks for (hopefully) a push in the right direction :)

  19. You have a a great “About Me” page, mine is pretty limited in comparison..Looks great!!
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  20. Danielle says:

    Wow, how inspiring. I’m visiting from SITS Blogtober and I’m glad I did. (I wanna pet a tiger too.)
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  21. Rob says:

    I found your blog thanks to the 30 days of NaBloPoMo. So guess what?

    I have nominated you for an award. I love your blog, so I thought I would show you a little blog love. Feel free to accept the award – you are very deserving! However, if you don’t wish to participate, that’s okay, too :)

    http://www.robsreallife.com/my-first-award-most-influential-blogger-award/

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  23. Wow! I will be visiting your blog again to keep reading.

  24. aubree says:

    I’ve been dreaming about taking my son on adventures since the time of his conception. He is now 5 and other than a couple of trips to Whistler, Canada and Oregon we haven’t really traveled.

    The question I have is (if it’s not too personal) is: How do you afford to travel with a family of 4? This is what holds us back in my family. Any tips?

    Thank you! I just found your blog and am loving it!

    Aubree

  25. aubree says:

    Thank you!

  26. Kei says:

    Your blog is awesome! Found it whilst looking for inspiration for my 101/1001.
    I’m pretty introverted and also want to make a bit of a change, though have struggled to find experiences that I can afford (since I’m unemployed/a volunteer). Have enjoyed perusing your posts and I salute you, brave lady! :)

    • Marcy says:

      Thanks so much for your comment. I love hearing about other people’s 101 lists. Doing mine really helped me come out of my shell. I checked out your list, and you have some really cool things on it, like the foreign flea market and found object collection. And llama trekking–wow! Good luck with your list!

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